Ronald Dean Hocken

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--Other Fields

ANCI: Waterloo, Iowa

CONC: Waterloo, Iowa

Ralph married Ruth Arlene Bark on 20 Feb 1944 in North Liberty, Iowa. Ruth (daughter of Lewis Alfred Bark and Marjorie Alice McLeish) was born on 12 Sep 1925 in Randalia, Iowa; died on 9 Sep 1983 in Waterloo, Iowa. [Group Sheet] [Family Chart]

Garry married Mary Nibeck. [Group Sheet] [Family Chart]

Notes:

cause of death - cancer

Notes:

Louis Alfred Bark was born March 3, 1986 in Maynard, Iowa. His parents being George Bark and Carrie Lucretia Smith. He was the youngest of four children. his father died when Louie was ten months old. In 1898, his mother and brother, John,
bought 48 acres 2 1/2 miles northeast of Maynard, Iowa. In 1903, they payed off the farm with Louis's inheritance money - Louie was seven years of age. He married Marjorie Alice McLeish on March 12, 1919 and they had thirteen children born to
them. In 1936, his mother died and Louie inherited the farm. In 1937, the barn burnt down and they rebuilt it. He was a very successful farmer. He also owned cows, pigs, horses and chickens. He made wise financial decisions and tehy survived
the depression with a minimum of discomfort. He was a very shrewd businessman and became fairly wealthy. He was frugal and lived modestly. He lost sight in one eye when one day a kernal of corn flew out of the shucker and hit him in the eye.
His relationship with his brother John was strained because Louie had inherited the farm. In 1968, a tornado destoyed everything but the house. He had over 20 buildings which were blown down and a large apple orchard was uprooted. Massive trees
lay on the ground. His children and their children came and helped them clean up, which took several days. Windows were shattered and mud covered the floors. Louie and Marjorie escaped in time to the cellar but had felt the house lift up
momentarily. Louie felt he was too old to rebuild so the farm was never rebuilt and the shock of loss stayed with him for many years. (It was burned down after Louie's death.) He became caretaker of the Twin Bridges park for a time and rented
his land to other farmers for crops and grazing. In 1982, he had over $150,000 in bank accounts and certificates. Louie loved people and loved having his family around him. He liked to play cards - mostly "500" and was a shrewd player. He was a
good judge of charactor. he didn't travel much preferring to remain n the comfort of his own home. He could be very stubborn. When the telephone company removed their "crank-operated" phone, he refused to have another one installed. This
worried his children as Louie and Marjorie were getting old, living alone and neither drove at this time. But through his children's pleas, he remained firm in his decision. He had a wonderful sense of humor and a sparkle in his blue eyes much
of the time. He was highly respected by his friends and family. Louie had a stroke on December 22, 1984 and died February 4, 1985 at the Grandview Care Center in Oelwein, Iowa, at the age of 88. He is buried in the Long Grove Cemetary, Maynard,
Iowa.

Doris Bark, wife of Louie's son Ray Max, wrote the following poem which was read at Louie's funeral service:

Your Memory Will Live

I'll never forget his smile and the

way he used to laugh,

the way he made you welcome to walk

down his garden path

surrounded by all the flowers he

loved so well and the many

"olden-days" stories he used to tell.



I remember the many times he would

turn to G'Ma and say, "Fix them a

bite before they go."

And G'Ma, before you could say "No"

would have a tasty meal prepared

just so.



We will miss you G'Pa, each in our

own way,

We won't forget how you touched our

lives and are here today to say...



Your memory will live forever and

beyond in a special corner of our

hearts.



More About LEWIS ALFRED BARK:

Cause of Death: Stroke

Lewis married Marjorie Alice McLeish on 12 Mar 1919. Marjorie (daughter of John Strawn McLeish and Jesse Taylor) was born on 9 Feb 1898 in Maynard, Iowa; died on 4 Sep 1987 in Maynard, Iowa; was buried in Long Grove Cem., Maynard, IA. [Group Sheet] [Family Chart]

Notes:

Marjorie Alice McLeish was born February 9, 1898 on her father's farm southeast of Maynard, Iowa. Her parents being John Strawn McLeish and Jessie Taylor. Marjorie was third in order of birth out of nine children. In 1908, her family moved to
Texas for one year and then to Oklahoma. They then moved back to Iowa and lived near Strawberry Point and Oran. Sometime after 1915, they moved to a farm one mile north of Louie Bark's farm. Marjorie married Louis Alfred Bark on March 12, 1919
in Fayette County. They resided with Louie's mother on their farm 2 miles north of Maynard, Iowa. When Louie's mother died in 1936, Louie inherited the farm and they remained there. They had thirteen children born to them. Marjorie was very
helpful with running their farm and was an energenic and loving woman. In the 1960's she suffered three strokes. After the first stroke, her children convinced her to see a doctor. It was the first time Marjorie had ever visited a doctor in her
lifetime. The doctor warned her to take it easy but Marjorie was full of vitality and continued to work in her gardens. She had her second stroke and the doctor warned her that she would never live through another stroke. But she had a third
stroke and it was then discovered that she had diabetes. In May of 1968, a tornado blew through their farm destroying all but their house. In 1981, she discovered that she had developed cancer. As a child, I remember her as a warm and giving
Grandmother. She never raised her voice no matter how we scampered about the house, in and out, muddy feet and yelling. She always met us at the door when we came to visit with a hug and a kiss for everyone. When we'd leave, she would always
walk us outdoors and wave until we were out of sight no matter what the weather was. Marjorie and Louie had a close marriage and enjoyed a mutual sense of humor. Once Marjorie accidently used a cake mix in place of biscuit mix in her chicken
pie and when Louie laughed, Marjorie calmly went into the kitchen for a piece of pie and "put" it in his face. Louie smiled, eyes twinkling, and licked his lips. Another time, while tenderly bickering, Marjorie pushed Louie over backwards in
his chair and everyone had a good laugh including Louie. She always said she hated cats which they always had plenty of on the farm. One time, she was seen taking kittens in a bag to the bridge to drop them in to drown when they had an excess
of cats. But she always gave them scraps from the table and when she was older, she would even pick them up and pet them. Marjorie died September 4, 1987 of cancer and is buried in the Maynard Cemetary.



Medical Information: Diabetes, Cancer

George married Carrie Smith. [Group Sheet] [Family Chart]

Notes:

William Durne Milne (who married Jesse's sister, Eliza) and John McLeish had gone to the same school. So William brought John with him when he came to visit his Uncle at Christmas time. His Uncle lived across the street from the McWilliams.
This is how Eliza met William and her sister, Jesse, met John McLeish. Jesse and John were married that same year.



The year John and Jessie were married, 1893, was the same year as the year the World's Fair was held in Chicago. Andrew McLeish, John's father, suggested that that John and Jesse keep house for John's siblings while Andrew and Katherine went to
the World's Fair. But John and Jesse went on their honeymoon instead so Eliza went to the Andrew McLeish home and helped John's sister, Maggie, who was only 13 and very pretty.



John's father, Andrew, gave him 80 acres of farmland from the homestead in Jefferson Township, Fayette County, Iowa - 2 1/2 miles south of Maynard, Iowa. They farmed here until 1908 at which time John sold his land and moved his family to Texas
where he purchased land. They built a house and a barn but they had no crops.So after a year, they went to Oklahoma and picked cotton. This is where there daughter Kathryn started Kindergarden.



They then came back to Iowa and lived near Strawberry Point and Oran. Sometime after 1915, they moved to a farm one mile north of Louie Barks farm which was 2 1/2 mile north of Maynard, Iowa.



When his wife died in 1934, Andrew moved to Colorado. He died there in Colorado Springs in 1958 at the age of 89. He was buried September 8, 1958 in Oelwein, Iowa.

John married Jesse Taylor on 18 Aug 1893. Jesse (daughter of James Taylor and Margaret McWilliams) was born in in Perth, Scotland; died in in Maynard, Iowa; was buried in Long Grove Cem., Maynard, IA. [Group Sheet] [Family Chart]

Notes:

Jessie attended school in Ecclesmachen, Scotland, 1 1/2 miles from Uphall. In 1885 her father died and she moved with her mother to Brechin, Scotland. In 1890, she came to America with her family. She was 18 years old. They left in April and
the family was very homesick but Jessie made friends on the ship and had a nice time coming over. They rode by train to Postville, Iowa where her grandfather, Nathaniel McWilliams, and her aunt and uncle, Eliza and Evan Swenson, lived. The
climate was hard on the family - too cold in winter and too hot in the summer but as time went by they adjusted.



Jesse went to Normal school and earned a certificate to teach which was not an easy task as their history and geography were different. She taught at the McLeish School.



William Durne Milne (who married Jesse's sister, Eliza) and John McLeish had gone to the same school. So William brought John with him when he came to visit his Uncle at Christmas time. His Uncle lived across the street from the McWilliams.
This is how Eliza met William and her sister, Jesse, met John McLeish. Jesse and John were married that same year.



The year John and Jessie were married, 1893, was the same year as the year the World's Fair was held in Chicago. Andrew McLeish, John's father, suggested that that John and Jesse keep house for John's siblings while Andrew and Katherine went to
the World's Fair. But John and Jesse went on their honeymoon instead so Eliza went to the Andrew McLeish home and helped John's sister, Maggie, who was only 13 and very pretty.



Jesse was a teacher.

Cause of Death: Cerebral Hemmorhage